Thread: HOMESICK ... How long on a cruise before you want to go home?

I answered a month but really I have no idea, ha! I haven't been on a cruise long enough to get homesick, yet! I think after a month though I would be ready to go home. By then I'd have run out of clothes that fit and would have to either get new, bigger ones or go on a diet and we all know that is happening on a cruise.

I answered "other" because I haven't been on a cruise long enough to find out. My Alaska Cruise we were gone for 2 weeks and yes I missed the kids, but can't say that I was really ready to leave Alaska!

Perhaps a little bit OT, but:

"Some people cruise a little. Some people cruise a lot. And then there is Beatrice Muller, the 89-year-old widow from New Jersey who literally lives on the Queen Elizabeth 2.
A legend in the cruise world, Muller has booked back-to-back cruises on the Cunard ship in an endless string going back nine years, and she had planned to keep it up indefinitely.
The problem, of course, is that the 41-year-old QE2 is retiring in November.

Muller sold most of her possessions in 1999 when she decided to start sailing full time, and The Times says she refuses to think about returning to land.
“What would I want to do that for?” she asked the paper's Will Pavia this week during an interview while the ship was docked in Southampton, England. "I was married to a wonderful man for 57 years. I have done my penal servitude – I want to travel.”
Muller began sailing on the QE2 full time after her husband died (during a cruise on the ship; the couple already had become regulars). She told The Times her cabin costs about $7,000 a month, which compares favorably to the cost of a retirement home in Florida. But “it’s far more pleasant,” she told the paper. “They don’t organize you like senior citizens’ homes must do."
So where will Muller go? The obvious choice is Cunard's Queen Mary 2 or Queen Victoria, but Princess and Holland America also have globe-trotting ships that might appeal to the endless wanderer."

To add a little more to recab's lovely story:

She moved into Cabin 4068 on the fourth deck of the Cunard ship nine months after her husband died on board as the ship sailed out of Bombay.

The couple, from Bound Brook, New Jersey, near New York, fell in love with the QE2 when they took a world cruise in 1995 and had planned to spend a year on board together. But after the death of her husband, her son persuaded Mrs Muller to take one last cruise - and she decided to make a permanent home on the 67,000-tonne vessel.

Mrs Muller knows each crew member by name. She spends two to three hours each day dancing or playing bridge and attends on-board lectures and shows.

Mrs Muller is reported to have funded her lifestyle by selling two of her three homes.

And another one about a slightly younger lady, who has spent some 12 years at sea since the early ´70s:

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There are people who cruise a little and people who cruise a lot. And then there's Lorraine Artz, 80, of Beverly Hills, Calif. The former dancer has spent nearly all of the past two decades at sea. A growing legend in the cruise world, Artz sails so often on Princess Cruises — at least 10 months a year — that the line just named her godmother of the new Royal Princess (which is fitting, as she recently moved onto it full time). USA TODAY's Gene Sloan spoke to Artz by phone during a port call in Israel.
Q: I'm told you hold the record for days at sea. How many is it?
A: As of today, I think it's 4,120. But I don't have my little book with me.
Q: And this all began when?
A: In the early '70s on a ship called the Spirit of London. At the time, I didn't know about cruising. We got on the ship in Los Angeles, and it was a little tiny cabin. It certainly was not comfortable. I just hung my clothes in the shower; that's how small it was. But after that first night on board, my husband and I said to each other, "We'll never travel any other way again."
Q: What hooked you?
A: It was so easy. On a cruise ship, everything is done for you. You have a room that is spotlessly clean. There is a room steward that takes care of your every need. There are shows, gambling, magnificent food. We'd done a lot of land travel before this, and it's hard work to land travel!
Q: Still, 4,120 days. That's the equivalent of more than 11 years. Doesn't it get boring?
A: I've got a standard answer for that, which is the smart-ass answer: Only boring people get bored.
Let me give you a little scenario of a day onboard. (After some time ashore) you return to the ship and get ready for the evening. You go down to one of the many bars, and you have a drink. You spend an hour relaxing with friends, and most of my friends, of course, are crewmembers.
(Then) you go into a beautiful dining room with a menu that any fine restaurant would be pleased to present, and when dinner is finished you have options. You either go to a movie or a production show or a comedian or a magic show. And then you go to sleep in a comfortable bed, and you wake up the next morning, open your drapes and you're in another country.
How anyone can be bored on a cruise ship, I don't know.
Q: Is part of the allure seeing lots of places?
A: It is, and it isn't. I like to see (different) countries. But for me, the best part is the life aboard. I came back to sea about a month after my husband died (five years ago), and from the moment I boarded, it was like I had this enormous family that cared what was happening with me. I didn't realize it at first, but (members of the crew) were taking intervals not leaving me alone.
Q: How many countries have you visited?
A: You know, I've never counted. But I've been pretty much around the world — India, China, Vietnam, Thailand, England, Scandinavia, Russia.
Q: Even suites on ships aren't that big. How do you manage?
A: Doesn't seem to bother me. I'm very comfortable. That's why I sold my house. I didn't feel like I needed it. Remember, you've got a whole ship there. You're not confined to your room in any way.
Q: And what happens when you leave the ship?
A: I keep the cabin all year, even when I'm not here, so I don't have to pack and unpack.
Q: I've got to ask: Do you ever get seasick?
A: Never (laughing). I grew up in the U.K., and I used to go fishing with my father in the Irish Sea. Do you know how rough that is?
Q: What's your favorite place to cruise?
A: I'd say Chile. The fiords are magnificent. I've been in Norwegian fiords and Alaskan fiords, and they don't compare to Chile's.
Q: Least favorite?
A: The Caribbean. Forty years ago, the Caribbean was wonderful. But now you go into a Caribbean port and there are seven ships a day there, it's crowded and (the locals) stand there with their hands out.
Q: How much longer do you expect to keep this up?
A: Until I die (laughter). I'd like to be buried at sea, but they don't allow it! When my husband died, this is what I put on his tombstone: "If you don't mind. I'd rather be cruising." And I've also ordered my own, and do you know what that says? "Me, too."

I voted other because I really don't know(yet). We're very comfortable with 10 days, and I think we could handle 2 weeks, but beyond that I'm not sure. I'm willing to find out though.

We just spent 26 days on a ship this past spring - we didn't get homesick.

OK, I'm the big baby of this group. I voted for 10 days because I do get homesick. 2 weeks might work but the ten days was more realistic. I really love my home and my own bed as much as I love to cruise and travel

Originally Posted by Chudley

I really love my home and my own bed as much as I love to cruise and travel

Me too!

I could go for a long cruise. Over a month. I'm going on a B2B to the same ports.